So frustrated. I was specifically not invited to my future daughter-in-law’s bridal shower. The reason: ex husband said so. But then….someone said to me “I’ll see you at the bridal shower”. I told them that I was told not to come as per HIS orders. She said HE is the one who told her I would be there! So I had to confirm it with my son. I am NOT allowed to be there because HIS side of the family will be there. I AM THE MOTHER OF THE GROOM!!!!! What a controlling bastard he is.